Some people can be so toxic to your health. They don’t want to love you properly, but they don’t want to let you go either. The more you give the less they appreciate, and the minute you’ve had enough and decide to walk away is when they are ready to love you and treat you right. So you give them a chance in the hopes they’ve changed only to realise it was all fake. You find the strength to walk away once more and here they comes again proclaiming their love for you and you give in, AGAIN. A person showing anger and persistence to get you back once you try to break it of isn’t proof of love; its a knee jerk reaction. A person kissing you or making flaccid attempts to be nicer for two weeks isn’t proof that he or she is trying, its proof that they knows you well enough to know how to defuse you long enough to hook you once again. Take away a toy, a little boy cries. Take away a relationship of convenience, that person cries. Just because they cries doesn’t mean you give them what they wants. Stop listening to what they keeps promising and start watching what their actions actually keep telling you. A lot of you don’t know what its like to be loved by a real person. You know lust, you know joy, you know passion and you know the fear of abandonment. Stop chasing your idea of what love should be and recognise what love IS. Love isn’t promising to act right after they gets caught fucking up time and time again. Love is them acting right from the start because they doesn’t want to fuck up. Love isn’t telling your grown partner they needs to change so they can keep you; love is a grown person changing on their own because they cant imagine life without you.
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